Summary:
The 'new driver' sets up the lifetime of a registered liftime using
global constructors and destructors. Currently, this is put at priority
1 which isn't strictly conformant as it will conflict with system
utilities. We now use 101 as this is the loweest suggested for
non-system constructors and will still run before user constructors.
Secondly, there were issues with the CUDA runtime when destructed with a
global destructor. Because the global ones are in any order and
potentially run before other things we were hitting an edge case where
the OpenMP runtime was uninitialized *after* `_dl_fini` was called. This
would result in us erroring when we call into a destroyed `libcuda.so`
instance. using `atexit` is what CUDA / HIP use and it prevents this
from happening. Most everything uses `atexit` except system utilities
and because of the constructor priority it will be unregistered *after*
everything else but not after `_fl_fini`.